A great moment to sprinkle some flirtation in your response is when someone messages you that they’re “Thinking of you.” How to respond to show that you share interest but with a sense of playfulness and to keep the connection alive. Here are a few tips on how to deliver the perfect flirty reply, along with examples.
Acknowledge and Reciprocate
Demonstrate that the affection is mutual. This not only reinforces a sense of shared emotion, it keeps the patter of conversation in play.
“I’ve been thinking about you too; we’re like on the same wavelength.
“You must have read my mind because you’ve been on mine too.”
Playful Teasing
Add some banter to set up a flirty tone
“Oh really? Were they good thoughts or should I be worried?
“Thinking of me, huh? Do I take that as a compliment or a concern?”
Express Curiosity
Ask them to tell you about it, expressing your interest.
“That’s interesting … care to elaborate on what exactly it is that you’ve been thinking?”
“I’m wondering, what do you think about me?”
Suggest a Meeting
Take the chance to suggest hanging out, which is a subtle invite for your interest.
“If I’m on your mind, perhaps we should turn thoughts to actions and get together.
“Well, are you ready to turn those thoughts into real with some coffee?”
Compliment and Flirt
Pair a compliment with a flirt to show them they are special.
“I find it flattering to know that someone as charming as you is thinking of me.
“Just knowing that you are thinking of me puts a smile on my face.”
Use Emojis to Enhance Tone
They can help you have a more fun tone in the messages.
“I’ve been thinking about you too 😉
“What’s on your mind? 😏”
Share a Personal Anecdote
If you can relate their message to something you both have experienced, you might just pass that unhealthy bond you had with them into something much healthier.
“Your message reminded me of that beautiful night we spent together.
“Thinking of you too! Remember when we went to [shared experience] Let’s do it again.”
Be Direct and Honest
Here’s the thing: Sometimes, the simplest format is the best one.
“I can’t stop thinking about you, either; when can we see each other again?”
“You’ve been on my mind a lot lately; let’s catch up soon.”
Inject Humor
A good joke can break the ice and let them see your goofy side.
“Thinking of me? That is dangerous territory 😜”
“I hope you didn’t think of me too much today!”
Express Mutual Feelings
Reward them for sending their message, let them know you appreciate it and you send a message back.
“Your message made my day, I’ve been thinking about you also.
“It’s good to know I’m on your mind; you’ve been on mine too.”
